Dad’s WOW #6

I’m never scared of uncertainty but I’ve always been scared of not having a stand on something because I believe if you choose not to have an opinion, someone or a situation will definitely choose for you.

If I don’t say anything, it means my stand is to let whatever will be the outcome be the outcome. Having said that, my heart is very open to accept whatever the consequences of the outcome cause it was my decision.

One of my favourite “life lessons” from my dad is to never live life with regrets. You can definitely feel it, but you cannot dwell on it.

Why? Because at some point, you made a choice and you’ve chosen whatever it is that made you regretful of something. For sure, during that time, you thought it was the right choice and you chose it.

I miss you, Daddy.

 

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#Donttellmum

I’ve been talking about this small initiative of We Are Social Singapore for Father’s Day on Twitter but since I really love this project, I’m keeping its awesomeness here.

Basically, a Tumblr site was created to host those #Donttellmum moments that you share with your dad. So you can share via tumblr or on Twitter by tagging @happydadsday.

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It was Daddy’s second death anniversary yesterday but it seems that it was just yesterday. I can still remember how he laughs, how he calls me, and how he nods whenever I consult him about my decision. Everything that I do, when he confirms, I’m 200% confident. Never mind the outcome, my dad says it doesn’t matter as long as you know you did the right thing and what makes you happy.

I got a few #Donttellmum moments with my dad but this one is so him.

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Oh I hate that you’re not here on Sunday.

Share your Dad moments here: http://happydadsday.tumblr.com/